It appears that there are somethings that one should not do and somethings that one should not say in this polite society.
What does your polite society look like? Does it look like mine?
Why should each others vision of perfect diverge such that they have to exploit?
Why should each others vision of perfect diverge such that they have to kill?
Is it that the vision that is not in harmony?
Perhaps the society is not in harmony?
Who needs perfect? Those that lack tolerance of that which does not meet their vision of perfect perhaps?
Do you find me offensive, attractive or defensive based on the literal values that the polite society you identify with follow? Is this confusing? Are you so easily led? Or are you a leader? Is you judgement sound?
There is a middle ground. Meet you out side the box.